Better Private Family Constellations: The Three Session Package

In group constellation workshops, the intake interview is a short one.  It homes in quickly on the problem, guesses at ancestral blocks, and moves directly into setting up representatives.  It’s in the nature of a workshop that it has to be this way. Four to six constellations happen in a day.

But what happens in one-on-one constellations?  Or rather, what should or could happen in private versions? 

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Do We Just Copy the Workshop Approach?

Many facilitators I know do something similar.  The constellation, whether remote or in person, happens in one sitting.  Some exploration of the issue and creation of a shared set-up of representatives is followed by the client and constellator both “feeling into” being parts of the family system. 

A dynamic is observed, and a resolution is achieved, more or less—and the interaction is over.  It is, in many many cases, an isolated, one-time event.

Early on, I stopped doing and teaching private constellations this way.  Too many things, starting with sufficient rapport with the client, and moving on all the way to subsequent follow-up—were left out in this approach.

So an initial private constellation with me, whether remote or in person, evolved quickly into three sessions.  Here’s what happens in them.
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